A Life Well Lived

The remarkable journey of Atabong Joseph Fomenky
May 5, 1950 - January 4, 2026

In Loving Memory

Atabong Joseph Fomenky lived a life of purpose, dedication, and love. From his humble beginnings in the village of Lewoh to his final days in Limbe, he touched countless lives as a teacher, mentor, father, husband, brother, uncle, grandfather, and friend. This is his story, a testament to a life lived with integrity, compassion, and unwavering commitment to family and community.

"Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father's house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you?"

- John 14:1-2 (NIV)
1950s - 1960s

Early Years in Menky, Lewoh

Born on May 5, 1950, in the peaceful village of Lewoh, Atabong Joseph Fomenky grew up from the Menky chiefdom surrounded by the rich traditions and close-knit community that would shape his character. The village life instilled in him values of hard work, respect for elders, and the importance of family bonds. These early years in Lewoh laid the foundation for the man he would become-grounded, humble, and deeply connected to his roots.

Growing up in the village, he learned the importance of community, sharing, and looking after one another. These formative years taught him resilience, determination, and the value of education as a pathway to a better future.

1960s - 1970s

Education at Christ the King College, Bamenda

With a thirst for knowledge and a determination to excel, Atabong Joseph pursued his secondary education at CKC (Christ the King College) in the North West Region. This period marked a significant chapter in his life, as he excelled academically while developing leadership skills and forming lifelong friendships.

At CKC, he discovered his passion for learning and teaching. The rigorous academic environment, combined with the values instilled by the institution, prepared him for a career dedicated to education. It was here that he realized his calling to shape young minds and contribute to the development of his country through education.

1970s

Military Service

Following his education, Atabong Joseph answered the call to serve his country by joining the military. He served with honor and dedication, demonstrating the same commitment to duty that would characterize his entire life. Unfortunately, his military service was cut short due to a medical condition that led to his honorable discharge.

Despite this setback, he carried the values learned during his military service - discipline, loyalty, and service to country into the next chapter of his life. These values would continue to guide him throughout his teaching career and beyond.

1970s - 2000s

Teaching Career at College Bary, Batouri

Following his military service, Atabong Joseph began his distinguished teaching career at College Bary in Batouri, located in the East Region of Cameroon. He started as an English Language teacher, dedicating himself to educating and mentoring countless students, leaving an indelible mark on the lives of those he taught. His commitment to excellence, patience, and genuine care for his students made him a beloved figure in the school community.

Through his dedication and leadership, he was later promoted to the position of Disciplinarian Master, a role that reflected the trust and respect the school administration had for his ability to maintain order, instill values, and guide students toward excellence. In this role, he combined his military discipline with his teaching passion, creating an environment where students could thrive both academically and personally.

Throughout his distinguished service at College Bary, Atabong Joseph earned three medals in recognition of his outstanding contributions to education and his exceptional service to the school community. These honors were a testament to his dedication, excellence, and the profound impact he had on generations of students. Many of his former students remember him not just as a teacher or disciplinarian, but as a mentor who believed in their dreams and encouraged them to reach for greatness.

Late 1990s - Early 2000s

The Bakassi Man

When the territorial dispute between Cameroon and Nigeria over the Bakassi Peninsula escalated in the late 1990s and early 2000s, Atabong Joseph's patriotic spirit and unwavering support for his country's cause earned him the enduring nickname "Bakassi Man." Though he had left military service years earlier, his dedication to Cameroon's sovereignty and his vocal support during this critical period resonated deeply with his community.

The nickname "Bakassi Man" became a symbol of his patriotism, courage, and unwavering commitment to his country. It was a name that honored his military service, his love for Cameroon, and his steadfast support during one of the nation's most significant territorial disputes. This name would stay with him throughout the rest of his life, becoming part of his identity and a testament to his character.

Throughout His Life

A Devoted Family Man

Above all, Atabong Joseph was a devoted family man. He was blessed with nine children, seven sons and two daughters each of whom he loved unconditionally and supported wholeheartedly. His role as a father was central to his identity, and he worked tirelessly to provide for his family, ensuring they had opportunities for education and a better life.

His love for his children was evident in everything he did, from attending school events to offering guidance and wisdom. He instilled in them the same values he held dear: integrity, hard work, respect, and the importance of family. His legacy lives on through his seven sons and two daughters, who carry forward his teachings and values.

2000s - 2010s

Retirement Years in Kombone

After a fulfilling career in education, Atabong Joseph entered a well deserved retirement in Kombone. These years were marked by reflection, spending quality time with family, and enjoying the fruits of his labor. He remained active in the community, sharing his wisdom and experience with younger generations.

Retirement allowed him to focus on what mattered most - family, community, and the simple joys of life. He continued to be a source of guidance and support for his children and grandchildren, always ready with a word of encouragement or a piece of advice.

2010s - 2026

Final Years in Limbe

In his later years, Atabong Joseph moved to Limbe, where he spent his final days surrounded by family and loved ones. Even in his final moments, he remained a source of strength and inspiration to those around him. On January 4, 2026, at the age of 76, he passed away peacefully at the Limbe Regional Hospital, leaving behind a legacy of love, dedication, and service.

His passing marked the end of an era, but his memory continues to live on in the hearts of all who knew him. The lessons he taught, the lives he touched, and the love he shared remain as a testament to a life well lived.

"Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me."

โ€” Psalm 23:4 (NIV)

His Enduring Legacy

Atabong Joseph Fomenky's life was a testament to the power of dedication, love, and service. As a teacher, he shaped countless minds. As a father, he raised nine children with unwavering love and support. As a community member, he contributed to the betterment of society. His values of integrity, hard work, and family remain his greatest gift to those who knew him.

Though he is no longer with us physically, his spirit lives on through his children, grandchildren, former students, and all whose lives he touched. His memory serves as a guiding light, reminding us of the importance of living with purpose, loving deeply, and making a positive impact on the world around us.

"Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him."

โ€” 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14 (NIV)

"He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away."

- Revelation 21:4 (NIV)

"A life that touches others goes on forever."